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- We cherish all of your concerns.
Nationwide concern contest.
- Let me introduce our guests today.
They are very hot right now.
The Soo-dragon, comedian Kim Soo-yong.
- Lee Hyun-kyung, who shows us high quality acting.
Kyung-ri from Nine Muses.
- So pretty.
- Soo-yong, do you listen to others' concerns well? Others' concerns?
- I am a man of few words.
I listen to my junior colleague's concerns.
Like when Kim Young-chul couldn't find a flight ticket to Ulsan for the holidays..
- Why would you care about that.
- I know about this.
- He went from Seoul to Guam to Ulsan.
Transit.
- He went to Ulsan through overseas transit?
- Through Bangkok on his way back.
- He's a troubleshooter.
For real.
- Even Guam wasn't available.
- Or Kim Sook.
- Do you have any concerns?
- I'm easily awakened at night.
But my husband's snoring doesn't bother me.
- Is it love?
- So I thought 'were we meant to be'?
But on the days when I work, I can't stand it.
The scene I was shooting was where a wife and a concubine was in the same house.
- I guess you're more sensitive since you're filming a sensitive drama.
- There is war of nerves.
- Are you the wife? Or the concubine?
- What do you think?
- From what I think...
- The wife.
- She's the concubine.
- Why?
Dong-yeob, how about me?
Do I seem like the wife?
Or the concubine?
- The kitchen worker.
- The mean stepmother.
- The kitchen worker.
- Oh my...
It sounds interesting.
- What is the title of the drama?
- At first it was 'Mother's river'.
So I thought I was playing the title role as the mother.
It changed.
- The name.
- Deep in the heart of the mountains?
- Deep in the heart of the mountains.
That's funny.
- It changed to 'That woman's sea'.
-'That women's sea'.
- It sounds really interesting.
We have three concerns today.
Let's see the concern keywords.
It's over now.
- I can't move.
- The drooping man.
- Huh?
The drooping man?
It all flows.
- Read it your way. - Go.
- It's over now.
I can't move.
The drooping man.
It's over now.
Hello.
I'm a wife in my 40s, who is tired to death.
I've been feeling anxious all my marriage.
It's because of my husband.
"Honey, steamed chickens are really popular right now."
"We should open up a steamed chicken restaurant."
After we open the restaurant, he'd say "Let's close this restaurant".
"Chinese restaurants are hot these days."
- Closing it right away.
- And then he'd say "Honey, come here".
"Come here."
"Convenience stores are really popular."
We did so many store openings.
Even people around us are stunned by it.
"What is it this time?"
"Is this for the last time?"
But he switched once again to an octopus restaurant.
Because of this we canceled our insurance, changed our car and sold our house.
Please help my husband stop his businesses.
This must really drive her crazy.
- It must drive her crazy.
It must drive her insane.
- Changing business this often means that it's not carefully planned.
- Right.
- Easily swayed.
- Right.
- His friends might be responsible.
The husband's friends.
Maybe one of his friends are persuading him.
- Keeps on persuading him.
- Persuading him.
- Soo-yong, have you ever been like this?
- You've never run a business. Right?
- No, I haven't. - Never?
- No.
- He did lend money to my senior colleague once and didn't get it back.
- I've run my own business before.
A restaurant called 'Hail pigs in Young-ja country' in Cheonan three-way intersection.
It was a pork belly restaurant, but I hadn't planned it out well.
I sold soy bean paste stew for $5.
But it turned out that the ingredients alone cost $7.50.
- How can it cost that much? - What went in it?
She just put what she usually eats.
- Yes, ample amount of everything.
I think he's not good at calculating very well.
- Not very careful.
- No, he isn't.
- I heard from Ji Suk-jin.
That you're doing a cosmetic business with him.
- Me?
- You aren't?
- Suk-jin?
No.
- Ask that in private later.
- So private.
- If there is a whitening product for eyes, I'll give it to you.
- This is a concern of a wife who is
tired of her husband changing his business so frequently.
Please come out.
- Hello.
- Can you tell us the businesses that your husband tried so far?
- Before we got married, he ran a burger restaurant.
- Handmade burgers?
- After marriage, he did steamed chicken, Chinese food and convenience store.
Also a chicken barbeque restaurant and an octopus restaurant for 15 days now.
- It hasn't been long. - It hasn't been long since he switched.
- The Chinese restaurant lasted the longest for about 10 years.
- That's long.
- And for the next 5 years, he changed every 6 months to less than a year .
- He keeps changing it.
- Yes, changing it completely.
- Didn't the Chinese restaurant last for
10 years because the food was delicious and the business was going well?
- Yes, but he wanted to try something else.
- Even if the business was going well?
Does he want to try something else?
- He just wants to change it.
There is no particular reason.
For the convenience store,
he thought it would be easy but it didn't suit his personality.
- It looked easy but didn't suit his personality.
- What about the burger place?
- He said it was hard to deal with the students.
- Hard to deal with the students? - That's funny.
- If he keeps changing his businesses.
- It costs a lot of money.
- It costs unbelievable amount of money.
Interior costs.
Starting something new takes continuous expenditure.
- He's still putting in a lot of money.
He saved up about $400,000 from running the Chinese restaurant for 10 years.
But now we only have $200,000 left.
- Why don't you try to stop him?
Have you ever thought you need to stop him?
- I tried many times.
It doesn't work even if I stop him.
If I tell him that we're going be broke,
he says that I should be on his side.
And he yells at me instead.
Then he would drink a lot and won't even talk to me for days.
- He gets upset.
- He must have his reasons.
Let's meet the husband.
Hello.
-Hello.
- So it's been 15 days since you opened the octopus restaurant.
How is it going?
- It's in the early stages and it's going pretty well.
- So are you going to continue with that business from now on?
- I'm not sure.
Pork cutlets are really popular right now.
- But it's only been 15 days.
And you said the business is going well.
- Why did you open the octopus restaurant?
- I ran a chicken barbeque restaurant but it was really difficult.
There was an AI outbreak, so I switched to an octopus restaurant.
- Then why did you open the chicken barbeque restaurant?
- I went on a trip to Chuncheon and I saw these restaurants packed with people.
So I thought that was it.
- Bibimbap and bean sprouts hangover soup in Jeonju.
- Bulgogi in Eonyang.
Why did you close the Chinese restaurant that was going so well?
- I'm really curious.
- I really want to know why.
- In Chinese restaurant, customers don't know how busy we are.
Because customers order by phone.
So the customers would keep rushing me when I was busy.
I didn't really like that.
- But that's the same for all other restaurants.
- Of course there are a lot of customers if the business is going well.
- He's upset at the customers. It's because he's upset.
- Right.
- Why they kept on rushing.
- Why didn't you put up a sign saying "Please don't rush".
- You have to be busy for the business to go well.
Are you going to quit the octopus restaurant too if it gets too hectic?
- I think I'm not very good at sales.
I'm good in kitchens but not at selling.
I would put in so much effort into making a delicious dish.
But people would keep rushing me.
- Instead of complimenting the food, they keep rushing you.
- He's really upset.
- He was upset.
- So he wants them to come and see how busy he is,
instead of complaining over the phone.
- Oh my.
- He puts his own philosophy into his dishes.
- But people keep rushing him. - But people keep rushing him.
- It could be upsetting if the customers
don't know the effort you're putting in.
Right?
- Right.
- He orders the most expensive ingredients
and he would make up new menus.
- How much is he spending for the ingredients?
- About $70,000 for the octopus restaurant.
- Just for the ingredients?
- Yes.
And for the interiors. We have $0 in our bank account right now.
- But when you think about your family, you need to earn money.
- I don't think about making profits when I run my restaurants.
I think if I focus on making delicious dishes, I get regular customers.
And the money come after that.
- You need to run your restaurants longer to get regular customers.
You keep changing it too often.
- I became a regular customer but the restaurant is no longer there.
- It's gone.
- I'm going to eat octopus. Huh?
But it's a pork cutlet restaurant now.
- Why do you keep changing it so often?
- Hmm...
- Are you upset at me?
- No.
I thought that I could do a good job
and I don't regret changing it.
I think of it as an investment.
It's also an opportunity for me to grow.
- Don't you think about money when you run your restaurant?
- I don't think about money.
When I close a restaurant,
I'd hand it down to my siblings or my mother.
-So you're not really closing it down?
- Yes.
I handed it down.
- What is he talking about?
- All he does is start things.
He doesn't know how to finish it up.
He dumped the burger place to his mother
as well as the steamed chicken restaurant.
- But if the business goes bad, things can get awkward between them.
- Because it's not possible to receive all the invested amount.
- Not even the premium.
Whenever he hands down the restaurant, we can only get 1/3 of the money.
Losing a couple thousand dollars.
- That must be really upsetting.
- Don't you get a little upset when you think about the Chinese restaurant?
Since it was going very well.
- It's all the premium.
- We used to live in a house but we sold it.
We also changed to a smaller car.
I haven't told my husband about this, but I actually canceled my insurance plan.
- Canceled her insurance.
- But from talking to your husband
he doesn't seem like a bad person at all. Right?
Maybe he's too nice?
- He's overly nice.
And stubborn.
- Stubborn.
Nice, stubborn and easily upset.
Now.
- Triple combo.
- It's good for other people but it's terrible for the wife.
- Yes, people like that give a really hard time to their wives.
- It's a good thing you're here today.
The husband might get a little upset
as we speak today.
- He's staring at Young-ja right now.
The in-laws are here today as well,
so let's have a little talk with them.
Are you his mother?
Hello.
- Hello.
- From what we heard, he handed down a restaurant to you?
- Yes.
He gave me the burger restaurant.
But it doesn't suit me well and it's meant for the younger generations.
- So what did you do?
- I sold it at a loss.
- What about the steamed chicken restaurant?
- We didn't have much money back then so we had to get a loan.
The restaurant was in a basement.
And it also sold alcohol.
But on some days, we would have absolutely no customers.
- That is terrible. - That needed to be changed.
- So I'd pour a glass of draft beer.
I'd sip on it and get drunk.
So I drank draft beer back then and I still like draft beer.
- The taste of that draft beer.
- The only thing that lasted.
- Why are you so funny.
- Let's go for a drink later.
- How can someone who ran a Chinese restaurant run a place like that?
- They can't - And a pub doesn't even suit him well.
Look at his face.
Does he look like he can run a pub?
He can't.
- How are they supposed to look like?
- You need to be very flexible as well.
But he's so square.
He's good at cooking, but not this.
- He's going to get upset.
- Why didn't you scold him about it?
- Ay, he wouldn't even listen to me.
I once told him that I'm so sick and tired.
Having to call all my acquaintances so that he can do a menu tasting.
I asked him why do a menu tasting if
he's going to do as he pleases anyway?
I'm so tired of it too.
They keep calling me to do menu tastings.
- Ma'am, it sounds like you're rapping.
- Give us the beat.
- Hey, let's stop talking about this.
I'm so sick of having to call all my acquaintances.
- Do you understand why your daughter-in-law is so stressed out?
- Of course.
How can I not know?
She's so stressed out that she told me
her heart pounds everyday and she has to go to the toilet very often.
Hearing that made me cry.
If I was her, I would've ran away already.
I would've filed for divorce.
My daughter-in-law is not saying everything because she's really nervous right now.
But you don't know how much she's suffering.
- Ma'am, aren't you nervous? - She's too nervous to speak.
- You're speaking for her instead.
- You understand how she feels.
- I feel so bad for her.
Having a hard time because of my son.
I feel so bad for her. - But at least you understand her.
- When someone asks me what was the best thing that I ever did,
I'd say it's meeting my daughter-in-law.
I think that's the best thing in my life.
My son likes drinking and he would
give restaurants to his brothers at a loss.
Imagine how stressed out she must be.
- Well.
- Thanks for your opinion.
- The husband.
- Ma'am, could you put your microphone down for a minute?
- I have a lot to say.
Dong-yeob, please fix my son's problems.
- Okay. We'll talk today.
- Okay. No...
- Please scold him. - Okay Ma'am.
- But actually...
- Ma'am, please put the mic down.
- Beside, beside.
- Who's that beside? - Are you the husband’s brother?
- Hello. I'm the youngest brother.
- How did you end up your continuing your brother's business?
- I used to work at a company and one day
my brother asked me if I was interested in running a restaurant.
He asked me that.
- What restaurant?
- The Chinese restaurant is run by my second older brother.
And I'm running the chicken barbeque restaurant.
- Which you got from your brother?
- Yes.
- He handed down a restaurant to the entire family.
- There was an AI outbreak at first, but the revenue has doubled since then.
- The revenue has doubled?
- Yes.
- The regular customers build up with time.
- Do you ever feel sorry for your brother? How do you feel?
- Yes.
I feel sorry and thankful.
- I guess it's not that you're jealous since you're all family,
but you just wish that your husband would
stick with a business and flourish, right?
- The octopus restaurant is not seeing high revenue since it has just opened,
but I thought maybe the chicken barbeque restaurant would've flourished
if we just stayed in one place for a long time.
- Your younger brother's restaurant wasn't off to a great start,
but now his revenue has doubled. How do you feel when you hear that?
- Don't you ever think that maybe you should've stuck with it?
- I didn't think that.
I think it's important that
I do what I like and what I can do best.
- This is something I heard from an expert.
Some people think that because they're a good cook,
everyone will find their dishes delicious and the business will go well.
But that's a big mistake.
You need to carefully plan out the business details with plenty of research.
If you just follow another restaurant
and sell exactly what they're selling,
you will not succeed.
- That's a good point.
- But listening to his mother speak,
it seems like he doesn't listen to other people's opinions
and just does what he wants to.
- It seems like he's listening,
but the next day he'll do what he wants.
- Back to square one.
- Yes.
- If I ask the customers how the food is, they'll say it's tasty.
And I take their opinions into consideration.
- You say you take things into consideration but in the end
you just do what you want.
Everyone know about it, including your mother.
Only you don't know.
- And if you ask the customers how the food is,
they'll most likely just say that it's tasty.
- Right. - Yes.
- Does he discuss new business plans with you?
- He should. You're doing it together.
- He doesn't.
He decides on his own and just tells me later.
- Can you be more specific?
- When signing contracts for a restaurant, he would tell me on that day.
- On the day of signing?
- When you're preparing for a business item as well?
- Also, when we were buying interior items for the restaurant,
I wanted to buy new stuff for our restaurant.
But he insisted that we buy used stuff
and bought used items worth $5,000.
We're only using a few of them now and we had to throw the rest away.
- He didn't check them thoroughly.
- Why don't you discuss with your wife?
You guys are working together. - You're a married couple.
- I do discuss with my wife.
I like houses but my wife said that she prefers apartments.
So I listened to her opinion and
we moved to an apartment.
- We're talking about your business.
- Are you worried about her opposing it?
- The store was right in front of a bus stop,
and I thought it would be perfect for a convenience store.
I had told my wife about it.
- On the day of signing contract?
- On which brand to choose.
- Why do you think he says that?
- He's changing the topic. - There is no special reason.
Because of the aftermath. - Because you'll oppose it?
- He knows that the whole family is against it, so he just does it first.
As he wants. -I think your husband is like this.
He just goes for it because he knows you'll be against it anyway.
You just go for it because you know you can't persuade them, right?
- I was confident about it.
- Don't you ever think that your wife could feel like she's being ignored?
How would you feel if your wife doesn't discuss anything with you and
she just told you what she is doing on the day she's doing it.
How would you feel?
- It seems like he doesn't know how to
admit his fault and say that he's sorry.
- Yes.
He doesn't.
During the 3 years I worked with him,
I got shingles twice.
- How terrible.
- When we were switching to the convenience store, I even got a middle ear infection.
- Middle ear infection?
- The doctor asked me why I worked
until my ear got this bad.
So I couldn't really take order calls.
I couldn't hear because my ear was so swollen. - Was it that bad?
- But he didn't even know. - Oh no.
- And my husband would yell at me in front of other employees...
- Your husband?
- Yes.
- Because you couldn't take an order call?
- He yelled at you for not being able to
take the call when you had ear infection?
- He probably doesn't remember.
Do you remember?
- I knew she was a bit sick, but I didn't know it was that bad.
- I think I get why his mother complimented her daughter-in-law so much.
My oh my.
I can't live with a guy like him.
It's driving me nuts.
It' so frustrating.
The wife must be so frustrated.
- He probably can't live with you either. - That's right.
He should've met someone like me.
Then it would be 2 stubborn people.
- So changing his business often wasn't the real problem.
He just doesn't listen to others nor
admits his mistakes
- This is really important regardless of
whether or not you're running a business
What concerns you the most these days?
- I'm worried that he will change again if the octopus restaurant doesn't go well.
My heart pounds when I wake up
and I have to use the toilet very often.
I just very anxious and not stable.
- But really, he seems like he'll change the restaurant if he doesn't like it.
- Then how about this for a suggestion?
Since you put in so much effort into your cooking,
why don't you leave the business decisions
up to your wife?
And you can focus on the menus.
- Why are you so frustrating. Speak faster.
When you change your restaurant so fast.
- That...
- What do you think?
Is that impossible? - Speak like a man.
- Give him some room.
- Really?
- Room.
- I'll try. From now on.
- Be more specific! More specific!
He wasn't specific about his business plans
and he doesn't speak specifically as well.
- Our restaurant is off to a rough start but when it's settled down,
I'll try to do things as you wish.
- As she wishes? - Yes.
- And you'll only focus on the menu?
- Yes. - I can't trust him.
- She can't trust him.
- I think he should be more confident.
Really.
- This must not be the first time.
Can't you trust him?
- He'll say that and change the next day. - It must be different this time.
He's speaking on television and
there are a lot of witnesses here today.
So I'm sure he must've felt something too.
- Please keep your promises. Good luck.
- It's really hard to change your way of thinking as you grow older.
- Right. - You just don't listen to others.
We all know this.
Even 7-year old kids can be stubborn. They won't budge.
Imagine how hard it is to change the mindset of a person in his 40s.
The environment needs to change first.
Support from the environment.
His mother and brothers need to be more stern.
- Say something to your husband.
Directly.
- Honey, I know that you're always trying
hard but I hope you'd think about me too.
I want to be able to relax and enjoy
a cup of coffee like any other women.
I'll try my best too
Thank you.
- She became tender-hearted at the end.
- This is such a difficult thing.
- Right. - If he was a bad person,
she could just swear at him or something, but he's genuinely hard working.
- Trying hard.
- Yet he's so stubborn.
It drives you crazy.
- Right.
- Is this a concern or not?
- Do I say it out loud? - No, no.
- Press the O button if you think it's a concern.
- One person.
- I got caught.
- Why do you think it's a concern?
- Of course it's a concern.
Shall we go to their restaurant today and try the food, Young-ja?
- It's in Cheongju.
- Is it in Cheongju?
- I think... - Cheongju is too far.
- Hyun-kyung, it's a concern for sure.
- I hope that the octopus restaurant will do good this time.
- And that it lasts long.
- Long.
- For a long time.
- I hope.
- I think in marriage, you have to listen
to your partner and adjust your opinions,
but it seems like you haven't been very considerate to your wife.
I hope that you'll listen to her opinions more after today.
I think it's a concern.
- Please press the button if you can relate to this concern.
-5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop.
- Please say something to your wife.
- I never knew I was so harsh to you when you were sick and I'm sorry.
I'll try to communicate with you more.
and I hope we enjoy a joyful life together.
- And the thing that you promised.
- I'll stick with the restaurant this time.
I'm sorry and I love you.
- He might have flaws as a husband
but he is an excellent cook.
- Let's see how many votes we got.
- It's all over now.
How many votes out of 200?
The last digit.
200 votes?
-150?
-140.
- Thank you.
- The drooping men.
I want to hear this one. Does he have a heavy head like us?
Whenever I see this, I start to sweat,
my body trembles and my heart pounds.
What terrifies me more than horror movies, are women.
- What?
- I'm scared of all women other than my mom and my sister.
When I see a woman walking towards me on the street...
- "Hiccup."
- If a woman asks me for directions...
- "Hiccup." "Yes?"
Why...
- If the cashier is a woman...
- "I..."
"L-lar..."
"Large combo..."
"I'm sorry".
-And then I would get out.
- Really?
- So oftentimes, I'm taken the wrong way.
I was at a cafe once.
- "Hey."
"Why are you leering at me?"
"Isn't this sexual harassment?"
"I'm going to call the police."
- I was just looking at her wondering when she was leaving.
But I couldn't say a thing and I just ran out.
Should I live the rest of my life as a coward who's afraid of women?
I know there will be a lot women on the show but I want to overcome my fear.
Please help me.
- This is so strange.
- What do you think? Have you ever see someone like this?
Or.
- I was like this.
- Men? - With men?
- I did like them.
But when I see someone I like, I couldn't talk or look at him in his eyes.
During my service, I'd go somewhere else if there were boys there.
Even in college, I'd lie to the boys that I had a boyfriend when I didn't.
- You lied about it?
- How did you meet your first boyfriend then?
- It changed at some point.
- You came to like them.
- I naturally became more open.
- Half of the audience here are women.
I'm not sure if he'll be able to handle it.
- Let's welcome our guest.
Please come out.
- You can leave it anywhere.
It's okay.
- Sit here. - Welcome.
- Hello.
- Welcome.
Please introduce yourself.
Wait, wait.
- Would you like some water?
- Yes.
- He can't look at the audience and he's looking down.
- He seems really nervous.
- Good luck!
His hands are shaking.
- I'm a guy.
Please introduce yourself.
- My name is Choi Ji-yong and I'm a Physical Education student from Jinhae.
- Physical Education major? - Physical Education major?
How do you feel right now? There are a lot of women here.
- Take a look.
- Take a look at the back.
Thoroughly.
- How is it?
- No, no...
- What?
You can't?
- What?
- How do you feel right now?
- He's so confused right now.
- How are you feeling right now?
- It's a bit complicated.
- How you feel?
Are you thinking if you can handle this?
- I knew it would be challenging but there's more than I thought.
- Are you nervous right now?
- I'm feeling blank. - Hey...
Say hello to Kyun-gri.
Kyung-ri.
- Hello.
- You have to look at her.
Look.
- Wow, wow.
It's not very polite.
- When he met with our scriptwriter,
she was sitting across from him
and when she asked him questions, he would look the other way and answer.
So you can't look at them?
Go ahead. - Look at his hands shaking.
- Wait.
So you can't say hello or look at Kyung-ri?
- You can't look at her?
- How about talking comfortably to Young-ja?
- Oh!
- Then...
Were you worried?
You were worried, right?
- Yes, what if he looks at me.
- Can you do this?
1, 2, 3.
You can't do this? - Okay.
- Why are you scared of women among other things?
- It seems like you've dated a lot of women.
- Yes.
- Is there a reason why?
- Is he scared of women or does he hate women?
Or is he nervous because he likes them so much?
- I think it's that
he's nervous and shy.
- What do you feel?
- I'm just scared.
I don't dislike them or like them, I'm just scared of them.
- Like you're scared of how they'll react when you talk?
- And also...
How I will talk to them.
- Can you tell us some examples?
For example.
- When a woman walk towards me on the street,
my hands would start to sweat
as you can see right now.
And I would start to hiccup
and my body would tremble.
- If a woman is walking by?
- Yes. In that moment.
- When she's just walking by
and she's not coming at you?
- Yes. And I don't want them to see how I am.
So I would walk around.
- Every time?
- Did anyone ever ask you for directions?
- Yes, but I never told them the right way.
I'd tell them the longer way or the wrong way.
- Why? On purpose?
- No, because my head goes blank.
That's why. - So strange.
- What if a woman sits beside you on the bus?
- A woman once sat beside me,
and I got scared.
I just stayed still because I just had to go a few more stops.
But I started to sweat.
So I took off my parka first.
But my hands would keep sweating.
So I took off my hoodie as well.
I was wearing just a T-shirt in the winter.
- Crying here?
- Yes, here. Of course it's crying.
And then a granny told me to wear my jacket because I'll catch a cold.
But I told her I'm okay.
- Wait, so you're not scared of grannies? - You must be okay with grannies.
Are you disregarding her?
- Why are you not afraid of grannies?
- I live with my grandmother, so...
- Nah.
What's the affected age group?
- Up to 15 years?
I think 15 years.
- Older? - Yes.
- And younger?
- No.
That doesn't matter. - So it's those he likes.
He's scared when he sees someone that he can potentially like.
- That's what it is.
- Does your family know about this?
- No. - They don't?
- They must think he's doing well.
How about talking on the phone?
Is it okay if you're not looking at them?
- I never do it.
- You never talk on the phone?
This is hard for us to understand.
So we've set up a CCTV in the waiting room.
To see how he acts normally.
- This is the KBS waiting room.
- He's here.
I'm so nervous.
- My hands are sweaty already.
- The scriptwriter is here.
- Isn't it too small in here?
I'll explain to you later but Ji-yong...
- He really does...
- There are 3 teams in total
and you have time to practice...
- He's not looking. He's not looking.
He's not looking even once.
-Hello.
Why are you so startled?
Did you do something wrong?
- My name is Choi Ji-yong. I'm 20 years old and I'm from Jinhae.
- How are you feeling right now?
- Complicated.
- Complicated?
Why complicated?
- I'm sweating.
I'm too sweaty right now.
- Should I stand in the back?
- No, no.
- All the scriptwriters are women.
So...
- So severe.
- What happened to you that
to made you this way?
- Kyung-ri's asking you.
You need to look at her.
- Did you hear the question?
- It's manner to look at the person when they're talking to you.
- But he can't do it.
He's going blank right now.
- You're going to want to use the toilet. Later.
- Kyung-ri, please ask again.
- What made you so afraid of women?
- Did you understand the question?
- The reason.
- Why you became so scared of women.
- There is one. - What is it?
- When I went to an English school,
there were only boys until Grade 3.
And a girl came into our school.
I wasn't interested in her at all,
but my friends kept saying that I like her.
- They made it seem that way.
- Yes. They all made it seem like I liked her.
But there was this one guy who liked her.
It must've been hurtful for him.
But since it was all rumors, I couldn't be sure.
So I didn't do anything and then
the situation got worse.
It was too late for me to say that I didn't like her.
- It was too late.
- Another reason was when I was in high school.
I had a really close friend in Grade 11.
- A guy friend.
- Yes, I would always hang out with him
and he had a girlfriend.
But one day there was a rumor that
I hit on his girlfriend.
- That you hit on your friend's girlfriend.
- So what happened?
- There were a lot of rumors.
That I tried to get her number.
- Strange rumors.
- So they started talking about me and my friend's girlfriend.
So I told my friend. That it wasn't true.
I followed him for a month, telling him that it wasn't true.
The last time I saw him, he told me
to get out of his life.
It was so unfair and I was so upset.
When I didn't do anything.
So every day when I took a shower,
I cried for 3-5 minutes.
- Because you're so upset.
- So it's something like this.
You're afraid that when you're with a women
something bad is going to happen?
- I have a lot of delusions since then.
Like what if I tell a woman to take this
and she gets in an accident in the bus?
I used to seriously think that.
- That something bad will happen because of you?
- Were you okay before that then?
- I was very forward.
- To women?
- To anyone and I used to take leadership.
- I think we should talk to his friends.
Let's meet his friends.
Hello. - Hello.
- Welcome.
- What do you guys think?
Can you understand your friend's concern?
- He really can't do anything without us.
- For example?
- For example, when we're at a cafe.
- Cafe?
- Pardon?
- Cafe?
- When we're at a cafe or a burger place
and the cashiers are women,
He says he can't order and tells me to do it instead.
I told him "You can do it, I'll be on your side".
He was supposed to order a large Bulgogi combo.
But he was stuttering like "B-bul..."
- Huh?
- A large Bulgogi combo?
He forgot the "gogi" and said"Bl-large"?
- B-bul...
Like this.
So we explained and ordered for him.
- The friend beside?
- When we were preparing for the Physical Education college together
he couldn't talk to the female teachers, so I'd speak for him instead.
And he would just stand in the back.
- When did you think that his problem was really severe?
- We were looking at my cellphone together.
If there is a photo of a girl,
he would flinch and stand back.
- From a photo?
- Yes.
When I first saw that,
I thought he was too overreacting.
- That he's exaggerating?
- Yes, I thought he was exaggerating.
But his hands were sweaty and he was shaking.
- From a photo? - Just by looking at a photo?
- Do you get sweaty when you look at videos or photos?
- Yes, at first.
When I was in Grade 11, my classmate
told me to watch this audition show.
So I did.
But I turned it off right after I saw the intro.
- Why?
- Because there were too many girls?
- They were all doing the same dance so I was like "Huh?",
and then I just turned it off.
And I thought maybe I should just listen to their songs when they debut.
I just listened to their songs for about a year and I got used to it.
So I thought I would be okay with photos now.
But my hands would get sweaty from looking at the photos.
- Are you talking about IOI?
- That and I also watched 'Sixteen'.
- Have you ever went out with a girl?
- No, I haven't.
- Never?
- No.
- Have you ever wanted to date someone?
- She's asking if you want to date someone.
- I want to.
But when I'm with a girl,
I just can't think of anything.
- Do you feel that something bad will
happen when you're with a woman?
- Yes.
But it's a little complicated.
Many emotions.
- You have all these mixed emotions
including negative feelings that something bad is going to happen.
- Yes.
- And there is no positive feeling.
There was this story about the time you were in a cafe.
- I went to a cafe to meet someone and I got there about 30 minutes early.
So I was sitting in the cafe,
and these two women sat right next to my table.
So I flinched.
And I kept looking sideways.
My eyes. - Like this.
- I was just wondering when they would leave,
or if I should leave first.
And I've been in the cafe for only 3 minutes.
- Because they made you nervous.
- They tapped me and asked me why I was leering at them.
They asked me if I was sexually harassing them.
Because I was looking at them so much.
They were holding cellphones and they told me they'll call the police.
I panicked and told them that
I was looking at the garbage beside them and thinking if I should clean it up.
But there was a wall beside them.
- You kept saying the wrong things.
- And they said "What?".
So I said "I'm sorry" and ran out.
That happened once.
- When a woman asks you something, do you say the random things?
- I was riding a bike and saw a woman walking towards me.
And I ran into a car while trying to avoid her.
This ankle right here.
It hurt a lot.
- And then a woman...
- Yes.
- Women everywhere.
You must've panicked.
- The driver asked me to go to the hospital together and that she'll pay.
But I told her I'm not too much injured.
And left on my bike.
- You left right away.
- My foot was so swollen and I couldn't even exercise.
I'm still suffering from some long-term effects.
- You should've went to the hospital.
Do you not go to hospitals since all the nurses are women?
- I don't say that I'm sick
unless I feel sick to death.
I don't want to go to the hospital.
- Because there are a lot of female nurses?
- Yes.
- Can you not look in their eyes? Or can you not even look at their feet?
- I got a habit of looking down
when I'm walking down the street.
- And if you see a high-heel?
- I'd look this way.
- Our necks are hurting right now.
He won't look this way, so us three...
- I almost fell asleep.
- He won't look at us.
I think he looked a few times.
Or maybe once...
Once or twice.
My neck hurts so much.
I should sit over there. My neck hurts too much.
- Women...
- So let's say you have a friend.
You have a friend.
- Is it because of me?
- If a crazy woman has a knife
and she's trying to stab your friend.
What are you going to do?
- He's going to have to be stabbed.
- Stabbed. - Really?
- You can't stop it?
- You don't think you can stop it?
- Kyung-ri, you go over there.
- I think I can make a gesture but it's not going to work.
Just gestures but not words.
- Switch seats with Tae-jun...
- Oh no.
- Where are you going?
Where are you going?
- Oh no.
- Where are you going?
- Take a seat.
- Try not to run away.
You're here to overcome your fear. - Just take a seat.
- Just relax.
- It's okay.
- What's wrong?
What's wrong?
- It's alright.
- What's wrong?
- It's okay.
You need to keep on trying.
I'm okay.
He's really sweating.
- For real.
- He is not lying.
- Why can't he do this?
- Hey, we should go home.
He doesn't like women.
- Are you okay with animals?
- Animals...
- Do you get nervous when you see a milk cow?
- That's okay.
- Can you milk it?
- Milk it...
- Throw it!
- Let's ask him.
Can you milk a cow?
- A female cow.
- I've never done it before.
- Just think about it now.
- Can you milk it?
- I think I can.
- Good.
Start with the cows.
- What are you talking about?
- It is actually really easy to overcome this fear.
- Right.
- He just needs to realize that
looking and being with women isn't going to
result in any trouble or accidents.
In fact, the other person isn't that interested.
Just look at her right now. Seriously.
- But it reminds me of the past...
- Trauma.
- It's just trauma.
- That's easy to say, but it's a huge psychological burden for me.
- You let it grow on you.
- So you can't look at Kyung-ri because
you're afraid that there will be rumors?
It's not like that, right?
You can look at her.
- He just made a small progress.
There are lot of women here today.
- He just made his first step. I think over 100 women out of 200 people.
Do you feel the same as when you first came or do you feel better now?
- I think I feel the same..
- Do you feel the same? It didn't get better at all?
- Yes.
I'm just trying to be courageous.
- Does any female audience want to
give him a cheerful message?
- So that he can cheer up.
- She put her hand up.
- Please give her the mic.
- Please hand it over to her.
- Here is the mic.
- Hello. - Hello.
- Can you tell him something?
- I went to a girl's high school, so I was scared to walk by a group of men.
But now that I'm in college, there are a lot of boys in my faculty.
So I met and talked with different people
to overcome my fear.
To overcome my fear.
- It's gotten a lot better now.
Look at her.
- If you used to be scared by men, how do they feel now?
- I think of them as the same human being. - Regardless of gender...
- I think the ma'am next to her
will give us a really good comment.
Ma'am.
- Yes.
- I think the ma'am next to her will give us a really good comment.
Ma'am.
- Yes, yes.
- Please tell him a brief message.
- Give courage to a boy who is like your son.
- I think he's too timid.
- Right.
- He needs to be a little more brave.
More than half of the population is women, what are you so afraid of?
I think he can change this.
- How can he change it?
- If he goes to college and the army,
his personality will change.
- The girl next to her.
The girl next to her.
Courage and cheer.
A message of courage
- A cheerful message.
- Cheer.
- Cheer up.
- I hope it gets better
and I hope you'll meet a nice girlfriend.
- Do you like him?
- Pardon?
- Do you like him?
- He goes to Physical Education college.
- A Physical Education college student.
- Most girls have a thing for it.
- He seems attractive, right?
- Yes.
I think he's very attractive. - And innocent.
- She said you're attractive.
- He's never dated anyone before.
- She said you're attractive.
- I didn't see her face.
- Take a look at her.
- That's being impolite.
- She just complimented you.
So it's rude to not even look at her.
Take a look.
- Thank you.
Say it out loud.
Thank you.
- Thank you.
- Isn't she pretty?
- Look. She's pretty.
- Ask her where she lives
Where do you live?
- Look at her.
- See? Nothing bad is happening.
- Ask her where she lives.
- Look at her in the eyes. - Where do you live. Go.
- Where do you live?
- This is how it is.
- Carry on the conversation.
- I live in Seoul and I go to school in Songdo.
Where do you live?
- She asked where you live.
She's asking you.
Me?
- She's asking you.
- I live in Jinhae.
- Oh, that's really far...
- If you go to Jinhae later...
- If I get to visit Jinhae later.
- Go to a cafe in Jinhae.
- But you looked at her a few times now.
And nothing has happened. - Right.
Only your hands are sweating.
- Can the friends say something too?
- You're going to a new college and you don't know anyone there.
So I hope you act more confident
and be outgoing and make new friends.
- He talks really well when he's with the guys.
If you just be yourself in front of everyone,
you'll be a really great guy.
Please applaud for Ji-yong.
- How are you going to change? - Just look at everyone.
Look.
Yes.
- It's okay.
- Oh no.
From me to myself.
- Just tell them how you will change.
Like "This is how I'll change so please do this".
- I'm sorry for avoiding you and giving you
the wrong directions and making you think that I was leering at you.
I will try to talk to you first now.
- Good. - So please be nice when I talk to you.
- Good.
- I hope today served as a good opportunity.
Soo-yong, what do you think?
- It seems like he changed even in this short amount of time today.
It's not a concern.
He can overcome this.
- Right.
- This is all psychological so tomorrow
He'll realize that things can change so quickly.
- I think it's great that he put up the courage to come out here today.
I hope that through this opportunity
he'll try harder and things will work out for the best.
- This is a concern of a young man.
Please press the button if you can relate to this.
-5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop.
- He changed since he first came out.
He is looking up at other people.
- How is it? Do you feel different?
- I feel a little better. - Right?
- I think the shaking hands are better now.
- Things will get gradually better
so you'll just live and love normally like everybody else.
I wonder how many votes 'The drooping men' got.
Let's see the results.
- The last digit.
- I think it's over 100 votes.
- It must be 101 votes.
- I think many people voted to cheer him up.
- Thank you.
- The title of the concern is 'I can't move'
She's here to charge someone.
- Charge.
- Hello.
There are 2 sloths living in my house.
- In her house.
- Sloth No.1,
lies on the bed and does nothing.
Sloth No.2 lies on the sofa and does nothing.
They are my husband and 15-year old daughter.
"Honey, should we eat out today?"
"I'm tired."
"Mom, I'm hungry."
"I want some fruits."
"Bring some juice on your way."
"Mom, bring me some snacks too."
My daughter used to be slim and pretty.
But she gained 20kg.
She gained 20kg.
Not in 1, 2 years but in few months.
- Unbelievable.
- Please help these father and daughter
get off their bums.
Dong-yeob, you have quick feet, don't you?
- Yes.
I rarely ask someone to bring me something.
I just get them myself.
- I've worked with Dong-yeob for over 20 years.
And he's never asked me to "bring me something" or "come here".
- To come here...
- He told me to "go away" a lot, but...
Let's welcome our guest.
- It doesn't slide?
- You have a 15 year old daughter?
- Aren't you the daughter?
- I thought she was a girl.
- Aren't you the daughter?
- Unbelievable.
- Wow, wow, wow.
- You look so young.
- How old are you?
- I'm 36 years old.
- You look so young.
- You're very young for your age.
- Your daughter must've gotten her laziness from her father.
- I've been married with my husband for 15 years now.
So I gave up on him.
But my daughter started to change since the winter break.
- All of a sudden?
- She turned exactly like my husband
and she wouldn't move at all.
- She wasn't like that before?
- Not at all.
- Why is that?
- She used to be very active and positive.
She would walk 2-3 bus stops,
and she would do dance performances for her school festival.
- Did you ask her why?
Did you asked her why she's acting like that?
- I did. She just says she's tired of everything.
Tired of everything.
- Isn't she just going through puberty?
Maybe she's going into puberty?
- It could be.
I tried to let it flow, but her friends told me that
she wouldn't even go to the toilet until the classes are over
and she would just sit at her desk the whole time.
- That must be so uncomfortable.
- Doesn't she have to go to the toilet?
How can she not go to the toilet?.
- I'm amazed that such lazy people
made the effort to come here today.
- They were lying down like sloths so I convinced them to come here today.
- You convinced them. - That's a relief.
At least they're here today.
Hello.
- Hello.
- Do you just lie on the sofa all the time?
- Yes.
- You just stay still?
Are you tired of everything?
- Yes.
- Are you tired of talking right now too?
- Yes.
- She's answering in short sentences.
- What's your day like?
Do you get up from your sofa?
- I wake up in the morning and watch TV, and I sit down.
Then I lie down, eat, and lie down. - Lie down.
- Go on.
- I watch TV, lie down and then go to school.
- How can you not go to the toilet?
It's a physiological phenomenon.
- But I don't have to go.
- What? - Do you not drink water?
- No. Not really.
- Why?
- It's too far.
- The restroom is too far?
- No, the water purifier.
- Yes.
- The water purifier is too far...
- Have you ever thought of working out?
- The gym is ...
- Too far?
- It's too far for me.
- Or since it's school break,
don't you feel like going on a trip with your friends?
No.
- Very concise.
Then...
- I think we'll finish soon.
Because she's giving short answers.
- Soo-yong.
- Don't your friends say anything?
- They all know how I am, so when I asked them to bring me something
they'll whine that I need to move and then bring it to me.
- What made you come here today?
- To see the celebrities
- To see the celebrities.
- How does it feel?
- It's so cool.
- Who do you like the most?
- Kyung-ri.
- Why?
- Because she's slim?
- She's pretty.
- You can become slim too.
- But it's hard.
- She's so stern.
- Becoming slim is hard work, right?
And it's hard.
- Yikes.
- It's hard to imagine what they're like just by listening about it.
So the mom secretly filmed a video.
- Did you do it secretly?
- You weren't caught, right?
- Yes, secretly.
- Secretly?
You didn't know, right?
- No.
- Are you surprised?
- Yes.
- Let's see how they are in their house.
Whoa. Where is this?
- A hidden camera.
- Pretending to clean up.
- You're pretending to clean up?
Wow.
- That's the perfect size.
- So cute.
- She's one with the couch.
- Mi-rae, come here.
- This is fast forwarded. - 4 times faster.
- She's so cute.
- She's getting up.
This is 6x fast forwarded.
Everyone, this is fast forwarded.
- So cute.
- She's just still.
- The dad is moving.
- Even the dad is moving.
- Wow.
- What time is it now?
- I'm cold.
- She brought her the blanket.
- This is ridiculous.
- Are you asking your mom to do everything?
- (Sigh).
- Wow.
- Is this daytime?
Whoa.
Is this daytime?
Whoa.
She's settled down.
- But...
- It's not easy to be one with the couch.
- How is it?
That's yourself.
- Yes.
- You look like the couch.
- No wonder why she came here to charge.
We have photos of the daughter.
-Before she gained weight.
- How she looked before the weight gain.
- I'm curious.
- We've got some photos.
- So pretty.
- Her legs are very long.
- Really.
- She used to play billiards too.
- She has very long legs.
- Don't you want to go back to that?
- You looked so pretty.
- I want to go back but
I already got used to not moving.
- You said that your friends bring stuff for you.
But I don't understand why they do that.
Are you a bully?
You're not.
There is no way you can be.
They might do you a favor because they're your friends and you're still school,
but as you grow older, no one will do that for you.
- Right.
- You won't be able to get along with other people.
So you have to fix it at some point.
- I don't know when's the right time.
- You haven't decided yet?
- No.
- Did your dad affect how you are in any way?
- I saw how my dad wasn't moving much.
He was lying down and it looked very comfortable.
- It must be hard for the mom.
Have you ever thought that
your dad should move a little?
- I just thought that
he looked very comfortable.
- She is going through puberty.
- I'd like to ask the husband, why won't you move in the house?
- It used to be really bad.
But now I help around
with the cooking and cleaning.
- Have you changed?
I’ll confirm with the wife.
Why are you charging your husband when he says he's changed?
- He only changed very recently.
I was so pissed off.
- There it is.
- You were riled up.
You were angry.
- I left the house without my cellphone.
But I had nowhere to go.
I couldn't go to my parent's house either so I just went to my office.
- Where?
- The office where I work.
Because there's no one there.
He slowly got better after that.
- How long has that been?
- I think less than a year.
My husband tells me that he's helping but
it's not something he should 'help' with.
- She's not just a housewife, she works too.
You should both be doing housework.
- How do you feel when you see
your daughter lying on the sofa?
- I'm pretty bad too, but she's even worse.
That's what I thought.
If I ask her something,
she keeps saying "No", "What?" and "Why?".
- Because she's going through puberty.
- She kept saying those things.
- Because she's going through puberty.
So what did you do?
- I thought I needed to do something.
So I asked her why she was giving her mom such a hard time.
And that she's my lady before she's your mother.
I told her in a good way.
- How can you say that to your daughter?
Where did you hear that line? - It's like you heard it from somewhere.
Now I think it was pretty ridiculous.
- Let me ask the daughter.
How did you feel when
you heard your dad say that?
- I thought I was watching a drama.
- What else is difficult?
- My husband is a picky eater,
and my daughter doesn't like moving so we rarely eat out.
- If she has a job, you should eat out. - I have to cook every meal.
- That must be hard.
- There are 4 people in my family.
And I clip all 80 finger and toe nails.
- Why?
Even your husband and daughter?
- That's so surprising.
- But why?
- My husband asked me as soon as we got married.
- Because he's lazy?
- So it became a habit. Then what about the daughter?
- Since she was born...
- You only do that when they're babies.
- It's okay to clip their nails for them when they're babies but...
- Can she do anything?
On her own?
- She doesn't know how to do anything.
Once, she called me when I was working.
They were giving out free facial masks for a cosmetic store opening.
- She got a gift.
- She asked me if she should take it.
- So I told her to take it and as I was trying to hang up,
she told me "Mom, there are two".
- Two... - There are two?
- Why is she asking that?
- I only asked about small things that once.
Other times, I didn't ask her.
- Why do you ask your mom to clip your nails for you?
- I can clip my left fingernails but I'm scared to do my right fingernails.
I have in-grown toenails and
it hurts to touch it.
- What about the husband? Are you scared as well?
- My wife doesn't like it when I do it myself.
She does it all over again.
- You like doing stuff for other people.
- They do make sense.
Because you don't like it when your husband does it himself.
- I have a very detailed personality.
- What?
- I have to take care of everyone to be satisfied...
- To be satisfied?
Caring for everyone else.
- If I was like her when I was younger
my parents would physically punish me.
But you don't say anything to her.
- The mom. - The problem is that you do everything.
- Right.
- I gave birth to her when I was young.
So she's like a treasure to me.
- Treasure?
- Like a treasure.
- Very precious.
- So I washed her face and hair for her until she was in Grade 5.
- You washed her face?
- Almost everything else.
- For your daughter? - Yes.
- Does she wash her own face now?
- Yes, she does.
- My mom is like this.
When I was younger, I'd do the dishes to get her compliment,
but she wouldn't be satisfied.
- So, she would do it all over again?
- Yes, and she would never compliment me.
So I started to just not do it.
Now, my mom would blame me for not knowing how to do it.
- "Don't you know how to do this?" - Like that.
She's the one who made me not do it,
but she's blaming me now... - That's possible.
Can you relate to what Hyun-kyung said?
- Yes.
In Grade 3, she asked me to wash my hair on my own.
And it was my first time doing it on my own.
So I couldn't do it well. - Unskilled.
- And I was getting too much dandruff.
So my mom just washed my hair for me again.
Also, I tried to clip my own nails in Grade 2 or 3,
but my mom told me to try later because it was too dangerous.
And ever since, I just forgot about my age.
All I could remember was her telling me to do it later.
I know how to turn on the stove though.
- Congratulations.
- Thank you.
- A 15-year old girl just learned how to turn on the stove.
Why don't you wait and let your daughter
do things on her own now?
- I tried doing that.
But she would ask her younger sister then.
- Her younger sister? - Asking her younger sister.
- What does she ask that little girl to do?
- To bring her some yogurt.
- Wow, so pretty.
- And to bring her the charger.
- Then does the younger sister bring it?
- She's becomes so happy.
Because her sister usually doesn't play with her.
That's enough for her to...
- Because her sister is showing her interest.
- She tends to say some rude things now she's going through puberty.
She tells me to be quiet when she hears something that she doesn't like.
Like that.
- Be quiet?
- To your mother?
- The other time.
- Does she say that to her dad as well?
- No.
Not to her dad.
- Only to you?
- That's because you're being too nice.
- And the other time?
- I took her to the gym once because she wasn't doing anything.
And she told me in front of the trainer,
"So what?"
"I don't care"
"What?"
I just felt so upset on my way back
so I cried on the streets.
- You look like you're about to cry now.
The daughter must've known that you cried too.
- Even if you're going through puberty,
you shouldn't tell your mom to be quiet.
- What do you think?
Why do you think your daughter is especially harsh to her mom?
- I think it might be our fault.
We got married really early and since we are both the same age,
we sometimes talk very roughly to each other.
Maybe she's affected by that.
- But you should know when to scold her.
- I used to be a total loser when I was 20 years old.
I was addicted to playing games and I rarely took care of my daughter.
So because I was sorry... - Addicted to game.
- You didn't scold her because you were sorry?
Do you think that's the right way to care for her?
- That's what I thought.
- So he thought wrong.
- Yes.
- Is there anything you wish from your mother?
- I'm satisfied with my school grades but she's not pleased.
- How's your grade?
The grade that you're satisfied with.
- Do I have to tell my specific grades?
- No.
She thinks really deep.
- In between top and middle.
What are your expectations?
- I hope she's among the top in the entire school.
- In the entire school? - Then why are you letting her do nothing?
- I think that the mom's expectations are too high,
and the daughter has given up.
Because of high expectations.
Is that true?
- I think that my mom would hate it if I told her my dream,
because it was so different from what she wanted.
- What was your dream?
- A comedian.
- Wow!
- A comedian.
A comedian.
- Why?
Do you have a role model?
- Yes, Park Na-rae.
- Wow, that's pretty hard core.
- That's not an easy genre. - That...
That...
- Can you do any impersonations?
- Show us your talent.
- I'll do when Oh Na-mi says "Don't~".
- Don't say that we're all the same.
- Go.
- My voice won't go up.
- It's okay. It's okay.
- It's alright. Relax your throat.
Go.
- So cute.
- *Sigh*
I'm sorry.
- That's more funny.
- Yes. - What I'm saying is...
- It fits the context.
She's funny.
- She has a hoarse throat.
- That's a unique style.
- Did you know that she wanted to become a comedian?
- It's my first time hearing it.
- How do you feel?
- Shocked.
You're shocked?
It seems like you want to be compensated
because you got married and had kids
at such a young age.
- I want them to recognize it.
Yes.
- To recognize?
Is that why you are expecting more from your daughter?
- I think I'm expecting to receive what I gave.
For my husband, that's to be good to me.
And for my daughter, it's for her to be successful in her future...
- So you can feel compensated? - Yes.
- Can you see how
maybe your daughter is like this
because of what you did?
- I think it's because I took too much care of her.
- You need to resist now.
- I think you need to fix that.
Because doing everything for your children isn't right.
You're doing everything for them because you love them, but that's making them lazy.
- Say something to your daughter.
- I'm sorry that I put pressure on you
because of my high expectations.
I hope that we'll share and
take care of each other from now on.
- Soo-yong, is this a concern?
- I won't even touch this.
I think the mom needs to change as well.
She's not a closed-minded girl at all.
- Right.
- I think she can change her laziness.
- You're worried about is her future, right?
My younger sister was just like that.
But when the time came, she could do everything on her own very well.
- I was like her too.
My mom took too much care of me and I couldn't do anything on my own later.
I don't think it's too late to make things work out together.
- Please press the button if you think this is the concern for the mother.
-5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Stop. - We're done.
- Say a word to your mother.
- I'll try to be polite to you
and also to move as well.
- She moved.
How many votes did we get? Let's see.
- 1st place has 140 votes.
- 45.
It's a problem that can be solved, so don't worry.
- 'It's all over now' takes victory this week.
Congratulations.
We'll give you the winning prize.
- For a healthy nation without concerns.
- We're always on your side.
- Thank you.